Hana i ka lā nui noʻoe, kāu keiki, a me kāu mau hoa hana.
Inā he makuahine hana houʻoe, eia kāu mea e pono ai eʻike e pili ana i kēia lā kūikawā a pehea e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻai i nāʻahaʻaina.
ʻO ka mea mua,ʻike i kou moʻolelo
Ma mua o 20 makahiki i hala, ua hānauʻia ka mua "Bring Your Daughter to Day Work". ʻO nā poʻe a mākou e mahalo ai, ua hana lākou ma ka Ms. Foundation for Women, he hui waiwaiʻole. ʻO nā mea nāna i hoʻokumu i kēia lā,ʻo ia ka pelekikenaʻo Marie C. Wilson,ʻo ia ka mea nāna i hoʻokumuʻo Gloria Steinem, aʻo ia ka mea mālama waiwaiʻo Daren Ball. Ua manaolana lākou ma ka laweʻana i nā kaikamāhine i kahi hana, e kūkulu ana i ko lākou manaʻo pono'ī a kōkua iā lākou e nānā i kā lākou hana i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
I ka makahiki 2003, ua hoʻonuiʻia ka mālamaʻana i nā keiki a kapaʻiaʻo "Lawe i kāu mau kaikamāhine a me kāu mau keiki i ka lā hana" no ka mea he mea maikaʻi kaʻike no nā keiki a pau. ʻAʻole pono kēia lā i kāu mau keiki. Hiki iāʻoe ke lawe mai i kāu mau hanauna, nā hoahānau a me nā hoalauna paha. He mea maikaʻi loa kēiaʻike ma muli o ka makemake o kāu hana.
ʻO kekahi hui kālāʻole, e lawe i kā kāua mau kaikamāhine a me nā keiki kāne e hana i ka Foundation, e piʻi aʻe ma muli o ka kaulana o ka lā.
ʻO kā lākou misionari ka hāʻawiʻana i ke alakaʻi a me ke kākoʻo no nāʻoihana a me nāʻohana e mālama i kēia kuʻuna e hele ana no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana.
Kūpono kēia Kuʻikahi iāʻoe, kāu keiki, a me kāu mau hoahanahana ...ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka!
Ke kamaʻilio neiʻoe e pili pinepine ana i kāu mau keiki i ka hana? ʻIke au i kou mau hoa hana e like me ka maopopo o kā lākou keiki.
Eia kekahi, i kou nohoʻana ma ka hale, ke kamaʻilio pinepine pahaʻoe e pili ana i kāu mau hoa hana a me kou haku? ʻAʻole anei i ka maikaʻi inā hiki i nā mea a pau ke hālāwai me kekahi?
Ma kēia lā e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa e hui pū ai i kāu mau honuaʻelua, kāu hana a me kou olaʻohana. E hoʻolālāʻoe i kahi'ōlelo hou a hoʻohui hou. Inā paha he mau pilikia, no ka loaʻa mau o nā keiki i laila, e lilo ana ia i meaʻike waiwai.
Eia kekahi, ke loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa e launa pū me kāu keiki ma kahi kūlana hou. Hiki ke kōkua iā lākou i ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ka mea āu e hana nei i ka lā a pau i ke kula. Hiki iā lākou ke nīnau i kāu mau nīnau e pili ana i kāu hana ola a ināʻaʻole lākou iʻike iāʻoe ma ka hana. Inā uaʻelemakule lākou i kēia lā e wehe i ko lākou mau maka i kahi honua likeʻole ma waho o ke kula, nā haʻuki a me nā hanaʻoi aʻe ma hope o ke kula.
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu i lilo aiʻoe i makuahine hana no kou makemake e liloʻoe i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi no kāu mau keiki. Eia kou ala e hoʻomālamalama maoli! Hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike iā lākou i ka hana o ka makuahine no ka mea eʻike lākou i kou lā mai ka hoʻomakaʻana i ka hopena. A laila, ma hope aku, hiki iāʻoe ke hauʻoli e nānā i kāu mau keiki e hoʻohālike e like meʻoe.
Peheaʻoe e komo ai a hoʻolālā no kēia lā nui
Ma mua o ka lā nui, e hoʻolālā i kāu hana no ka lā.
Hoʻolālā pinepineʻia ka hoʻolālā e ho'āʻo ai e pale i nā hana paʻakikī. Inā ponoʻoe, eʻikeʻoe inā hiki i kahi makuaʻohana'ē aʻe ke kōkua iāʻoe no hoʻokahi hora.
A laila e hoʻolālā i ka hana a kāu keiki. E noi aku i kāu keiki inā loaʻa kekahi mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana ma ko mākou wahi hana no ka loaʻa iā lākou. Hiki paha iāʻoe ke kānalua i kāu mau keiki ma ka hoʻomākaukauʻana i nā polokalamu a me nā hana e hoʻopiha i kā lākou "lā hana".
ʻO kāu kākoʻo pāʻoihana paha a iʻoleʻoe i ka papahana e hahai ai i ka laweʻana i kāu kaikamahine a me kāu keiki i ka lā hana? Ināʻaʻole, eia kou manawa e koho ai. E kaʻana i kāu mau hoʻolālā me kāuʻoihana HR. A laila e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou e pili ana i ke kiʻi o kā mākou mau kaikamāhine a me nā keiki e hana i ka Foundation a me kā lākou mau alakaʻi alakaʻi a me nā manaʻo.
Me kahi papa hana i ka lima, hiki i kāu mea hana ke hoʻoikaikaʻia e loaʻa i nā mākua'ē aʻe e komo i kēia lā. Hiki iāʻoe ke mahele i kāu hana me kāu mau keiki a me ka hana a nā mea'ē aʻe i kā lākou hana.
Eia kekahi, hiki iāʻoe ke kōkua kekahi i kekahi ma waho o ka hanaʻana i ka hana a ponoʻoe e nānā. No ka mea e like me ka hanaʻana o nā keiki e hikiʻole ke hoʻokuʻuʻia, pēlā.
ʻO kekahi mau mea kōkua no ka manawa mua
Ināʻo kēia ka manawa mua e lawe ai i kāu mau keiki e noi i nā mākua hana'ē aʻe no ka'ōlelo aʻo. Aia kahi lumi maikaʻi kahi i makemake ai nā keiki eʻike? Pehea i mālama ai ka makua hana i kā lākou mau keiki me kaʻoluʻolu a hoʻokipaʻia no ka lā? Hiki paha i kekahi poʻe paʻahana ke hana i nā mea hoʻokani no kahi kūikawā kūikawā like me kēia.
E noi i nā mākua hana'ē aʻe inā lākou makemake e hui pū meʻoe a me kāu keiki (no ka lāʻaina awakea). He ala maikaʻi kēia e nānā ai me nā mākua'ē aʻe eʻike i ka heleʻana o kā lākou lā kūikawā. Pono kekahi e kōkua i ia awakea? Hiki i nā'ōpiopio ke hana i ka papahana i ka awakea? ʻO ka hoʻohuiʻana i nā keiki a pau, e kōkua iā lākou e loaʻa nā wiggles. Makemake nā kānaka a pau i kahi manawa pōkole, pololei?
ʻO ka mea nui loa, e hoʻomanaʻo i ka waihoʻana i kekahi mau rula o ka'āina ma mua o ka wāwae i ke keʻena. E haʻi iā lākou pehea e manaʻo ai lākou e hana. E hoʻomākaukau iā lākou ma ka hoʻolālāʻana i kāu hoʻolālā no ka lā a no ka hoʻokahuliʻana i ka hale. Eia kekahi,ʻaʻole kūpono ka hāʻawiʻana i uku no ka hana maikaʻi!
Hoʻoponoponoʻia e Elizabeth McGrory.