ʻO ka pono o ka wahine i ka hana
E kiʻi i ka laina
Wahi a Catalyst i ka 2002 Heluhelu o nā Wahine Wahine a me nā Top Earners, ua hoʻokau nā wāhine i kaʻeli iho ma mua o ka hapa he 10 o nā kūlana o nā lālā i mālamaʻia e nā hui aupuni aʻo ka 5.2 pakeneka wale nō o nā mea nui i loaʻa ma Fortune 500 he mau wāhine. Aia he hoʻohuiʻana?
ʻAe.
ʻO ka hapalua o nā wāhine lawelawe a he kanaonokumamāwalu pakeneka o nā luna nui e'ōlelo anaʻaʻole nele kahiʻike laina nui "e hoʻopaʻa i nā wāhine" (Catalyst, Women in US Corporate Leadership , 2003).
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kaʻikeʻoihana he mea koʻikoʻi, e hoʻomākaukau. E aʻo i ka hoʻoponopono waiwai, lilo i mea akamai i kahi hana e like me ka hoʻolālāʻana i ke kumumanaʻo , kaʻoihana, ke kūʻai a kūʻai paha, lawelawe i kahi papahana kōkuaʻole aʻaha kūkā paha, a i ka manawa kūpono ka manawa kūpono, e kū i ka kuleana me ka uku waiwai.
ʻAʻole hiki keʻike i kaʻike kālā i ka pō. ʻO Margaret Morford, 50, o Brentwood, Tennessee, he Hope Pelekikenaʻo ia no nā mea kōkua nui no kahi hui nui loa, e hoʻomanaʻo anaʻo ia, "Ua lawe au i kēlā kālā likeʻole no nā kumuʻoihana kālāʻoleʻekolu manawa a loaʻa iaʻu."
"Ua hoʻohana au i kēlāʻikeʻike kālā no ka hōʻikeʻana i ka hopena o nā kōkuaʻana o nā Haumāna." I ka manawa aʻu i hoʻomaka ai e kamaʻilio i nā helu, ua hoʻomaka nā lunaʻoihana o kaʻu hui e nānā i nāʻenehana Hawaiʻi ma keʻano he hoa hanaʻoi aku ma muaʻole ma keʻano he alakaʻi hoʻomalu no nā kālā. "
E hoʻomanaʻo iāʻoe
I ka makahiki 2005, ua noi ka Center for Work / Life Policy i nā wāhine i kā lākou makemake i kahi hana. ʻO nā makahiki he kanahikukumamāiwa o nā wāhine i'ōlelo mai, "ʻo ke kūʻokoʻa e hana iaʻu." E nīnau i kekahi kanaka inā makemakeʻo ia e "hana iā ia iho," a e loaʻa paha iāʻoe ke aniani ke nānā aku iaʻu i ka nīnauʻana i kaʻu kāne i kēlā nīnau. .
Akā, i koʻu nīnauʻana i nā alakaʻi wahine, lohe wau i nā moʻolelo e like me ka mea a koʻu hoaloha,ʻo Pam Judd, 53 makahiki.
Ma hope koke iho o kona hoʻomakaʻana e hana no Levi, ua aʻoʻiaʻo Pam e kona kahu a me kona mau hoa ke manaʻoʻo ia e hele i mua,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e maikaʻi. ʻO ka Pam pono ka mea maikaʻi loa - mālama, sympathium, kekahi mea hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea a pau i loko o ka nohoʻana o kona mau hoaaloha a me konaʻohana me kahi kāleka a iʻole kelepona.
Ua mālamaʻo Pam i kēlā'ōlelo aʻo mua, ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e lilo iā ia iho, a hoʻoholo i ka papa. I kēia manawa, he 33 mau makahiki ma hope aku, he luna kūʻaiʻo ia, kekahi o nā alakaʻi wahine kiʻekiʻe ma kona hui, a maikaʻi nō hoʻi.
E hōʻike i ke kiʻekiʻe
Paʻa hope loa he 50 pakeneka o nāʻoihana wahine e kuhikuhi nei i ka "hoʻolālāʻana i nāʻano a me nā mana kāne eʻoluʻolu ai" he mea nui i ka holomua (Catalyst, Women in US Corporate Leadership , 2003).
ʻO kā Dr. Pat Heim, ka mea kākau o Invisible Rules: Men, Women and Teams , e kākau ana, "he nui nā manawa e hoʻohana ai nā wāhine i nā pā pākuʻi, hoʻohemo, a me nā nīnau i loko o kā lākou'ōlelo e hoʻokomo i ka mea'ē aʻe a mālama i ka pilina nui ma waena o ka wahine. I ka loheʻana o nā kānaka i kēia,'ōlelo hewa lākou i kahi wahineʻaʻole iʻike i kāna mea e kamaʻilio nei, aʻaʻole paha i kūpono i kona manaʻo. "
Lisa Steiner, makahiki 46, he Hope Pelekikena, Brown-Forman Corporation, Louisville, Kentucky, penei, "Ma koʻuʻikeʻana,ʻo nā wāhine e noi mau nei i nā'ōlelo aʻo a ua wikiwikiʻia lākou e nānāʻia e like me ka nele -ʻaʻole kaʻike maikaʻi loa ināʻo kāu pahuhopu ke hiki i ka ma luna. "E'ōlelo anaʻo Steiner," Ua lawe iaʻu i nā makahiki e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kaʻu mau hoʻoholo hoʻoholo hoʻoholoʻana ma kēia manawa naʻe wau i aʻo aiʻaʻole wau e koho i kaʻu mau koho. "
Hōʻike i kou mau MoʻomanaʻoʻAʻole i kou Pānā
ʻO Maria Xenidou, he 35 makahiki, he poʻohana kiʻekiʻe, Nationalarch & Chemical Company, Bridgewater, New Jersey, e hahai i ka'ōlelo aʻo a kahi'ōlelo aʻo nāna i haʻi iā iaʻaʻole e pane i kahi nīnau a kahi mea nui, "Peheaʻoe?" Me "Fine."
Akā,'ōleloʻo ia, "Ke hāʻawi nei au i hoʻokahi hua'ōlelo e hoʻoholo ai i ka mea aʻu e hana nei aiʻole i kahi hopena hou iʻikeʻia e aʻu. Ma ka hanaʻana pēlā, ke mālama nei au i kaʻoihana kiʻekiʻe i kēia manawa no kaʻuʻoihana a he mea hiki ke kōkua koke aku i loko o ke keena.
Aʻo nā wāhine lanakila loa,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i ka hāpai, hoʻohiki, aiʻole i ka hope loa ma ka pā. Ma ka makahiki 2005 i aʻoʻia e ka University of Tulane eʻike nā wāhine i hoʻouna i ka leka uila, eʻaʻahu i nā kapa liʻiliʻi, e pākiki i ko lākou mau wāwae, aiʻole e pāpale i nā poʻohiwi o kahi kāne ma ka hana hana i ka uku a me ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe .
ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa inā pauʻoe
ʻO ka pilikia nui loa a nā wāhine e lele ai,ʻo ia ke alakaʻiʻana i nā keiki a me kaʻoihana. ʻOiai ke ola nei nā kāne i nāʻoihanaʻoihana a me nā ola pilikino, ua pale nā wāhine i ka hapanui o nāʻohana a me nā kuleana o nā keiki a e uku i nā hopena o ka hana. Wahi a Catalyst, 'Aʻole hiki ke hoʻololi i ka hana i kahi wahine , 2003,' oi aku ka nui o nā wāhine ma mua o nā kāne:
- Ke hoʻolimalima i nā lawelawe no nā kōkua kaiaulu.
- E hoʻolilo i nā kuleana pilikino me kekahi hoa.
- E hoʻohana i nā lawelawe mālama keiki.
- E hilinaʻi ma nā mea kōkua ma waho aʻe o kā lākou hoa.
- ʻO ka makemake o nā mea pilikino.
Hāpai nā wāhine lanakila i kā lākou mauʻoihana aʻaʻole hoʻi e ho'āʻo e hana i nā mea a pau. Ua mareʻiaʻo Steiner meʻehā mau keiki ma ka home. Ua hoʻomakaʻo ia i konaʻohana ma hope o ka hoʻopauʻana i kāna aʻoʻana a me ka hōʻailonaʻana i kāna hui. 'Ōleloʻo Steiner, "ʻAʻole wau e ho'āʻo e hana i nā mea a pau. Ke hoʻopuehu nei au i ka nui o nā hana a ka home e hana ai ko mākou ola. "
E hoʻomaikaʻi i ke kōkua wahine
Ma ka Hui Kamaliʻi , "Women and Men, Work and Power", Fepuali 1998, ua'ōleloʻiaʻo Sharon Patrick, Pelekikena a me COO,ʻo Martha Stewart Living , "ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke haʻalele i hoʻokahi makahiki miliona o ka mōʻaukala - ma ke keʻena a iʻole ma ke ola lumi. Huli nā kāne, hōʻiliʻili nā wāhine. "Heʻano'aloʻaha aʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ka hahai holoholona o kēia manawa e" hele ana no ka momona a laila e kono ana iāʻoe no ka beer mahope. "
Wahi a Nicki Joy a me Susan Kane-Benson, nā mea kākau o ke kūʻaiʻana he Woman's Game , hāpai nā wāhine i kaʻoluʻolu a me kaʻaelike, e nīnau me nā poʻe akamai, nā limahana a me nā hoa aloha ma mua o ka hoʻoholoʻana, a me ka pilina aku me nā mea'ē aʻe.
ʻOiai nā hui hou aʻe e neʻe aku ana mai nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi a me ke kālai'āina koʻikoʻi i ka hōʻailona hou, hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻole, i nā hiʻohiʻona democrapia, "ke ala aʻe nei e like me ke kanaka i ka waiwaiʻole," wahi a John Naisbitt, ka mea kākau o Megatrends . Ae au.