A iʻole, pehea lā e hiki ai i ka hana ma ka home mom ke loaʻaʻole kahi mālama keiki?
Ināʻoe e mālama i ka mālamaʻana aʻaʻole paha, e hilinaʻi nui nō ia i nā mea he nui, akā,ʻo nā kūlana iʻole e mālamaʻia ma waho o nā keiki e like me nā mea e hana ai nā keiki manawa wāwae, e hoʻololi wale ana ma ka wekelā. Eia kekahi lā, hiki i ka manawa manawa aʻaʻoleʻole paha ke keiki ke hana iāʻoe inā
- aia kāu mau keiki i ke kula,
- hana waleʻoe i kahi manawa
- hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā hola i ka wā e hiamoe ana kāu mau keiki
- Loaʻa iāʻoe he hoa ma ka home e kōkua me ka mālama keiki i kāu hana.
Akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia ka hui pūʻana o kēia mau mea i hikiʻole ai ke mālama i nā keiki no kahi makuahine home-home.
I kekahi mau mea,ʻo ka ho'āʻo e hana ma ka home me ka mālamaʻoleʻana i nā keiki he mea ponoʻole. Aʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, inā he polokalamu kelepona i hoʻohanaʻia (e kū'ē i ka mea hana kūʻokoʻa a mea paha o kaʻoihana home),ʻaʻole paha eʻaeʻia e ka mea nānaʻoe i hana, no ka mea, no ka manawa.
Akā no ka poʻe me ka hoʻonohonoho maʻalahi, hiki iā lākou ke hana i ka manawa piha me ka mālamaʻole i nā keiki. ʻO ke kikowaena loa, a ma kaʻoi aku paha o ka maʻalahi,ʻo ka hana ke hana i ka wā e hele ana nā keiki i ke kula a laila e hoʻopau i kāuʻoihana i ka wā e nohoʻia ana nā kamaliʻi ma ka home, me ka hana a me ka hiamoe. (Akā, mai poina, aia ke kauwela a pau!
Hiki i nāʻohana me nā keiki i hikiʻole i ke kula ke hoʻolālā me ka mālamaʻole i nā keiki inā hanaʻole kekahi hoa hana a hana paha i ka papa manawa palenaʻole. He mau hōʻailona mālama hale ka home o ka home-home-mother me nā keiki'ōpio e hana manawa piha.
E hoʻomanaʻo i nā lula o ke aupuni eʻokoʻa i ka makahiki hea kāu mau keiki e helu ai i kāu mau keiki i mālamaʻia i kahi mālama hale. ʻO ka hoʻohanaʻana i kēia mau manaʻo no ka'ōpiopio liʻiliʻi i kahi hana ma ka home mom, hiki ke hoʻokuʻu pinepine i ka manawaʻole o ke keiki no ka loaʻaʻana o kāna hana me ka ukuʻoleʻana no ka mālamaʻana i nā keiki. Loaʻa paha i ke keiki i ka hana .
Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo i ka ho'āʻoʻana e hana me kaʻole o nā keiki e mālama i kona kumukūʻai. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻokomo i ka momi i ka wāwae haʻihaʻiʻoiaiʻo ia e ho'āʻo mau nei e hoʻonui i ka mālamaʻana i ke keiki a me ka hanaʻana i ka manawa like. Hiki iā ia ke emi i kāna kālā. Hiki ke hoʻohālikelike i kahi no ka hoʻonaniʻana i nā'ōpiopio no nā keiki. No laila, pono i ka makuahine ke kaulike i kēia mau mea āpau a pau i ka hoʻoholoʻana inā ponoʻo ia e mālama i nā keiki.