Keʻikeʻia nei kaʻikeʻana i keʻano o kā mākou heleʻana i kekahi poʻe, nui nā makapō o mākou. Kūleʻa mākou i ka nānāʻana iā mākou iho ma muli o kā mākou mau manaʻo maikaʻi, aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe e hoʻokolokolo iā mākou i nā mea a lākou eʻike maoli nei a lohe.
No ka hoʻopauʻana i ke āpau ma waena o kaʻikeʻana iā mākou iho a me nāʻike'ē aʻe o nā mea'ē aʻe iā mākou, pono mākou i nāʻike. Wahi a Gau Ken Blanchard, "ʻo ka pane aku ka pāʻina kakahiaka o nā mea hōʻeuʻeu."
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, no nāʻoihana,ʻo ia hoʻi, nā lunaʻoihana, he loli kūpono nā pane komoʻana, akāʻaʻohe pono. Inā makemakeʻoe i ka manaʻo hoʻopuka, aia nā ala e loaʻa ai.
E mālama pono i ka wā e loaʻa ai iāʻoe nā manaʻo pane, hoʻoloheʻoe, e pani i kou waha, ae'ōlelo, "Mahalo iāʻoe."
1. E lawe iāʻoe i 360 mauʻike
He 360 mau hoʻonaʻauaoʻana, he mau lālā noiʻi, i lawelawe pinepineʻia e kekahi poʻe'ē aʻe no kahi uku. Ke noi nei kēia mau hōʻike i kou haku, mau hoa, a me nā limahana no nā manaʻo a me nā'ōlelo e pili ana i kāu mauʻula a me nā mākau. ʻOiaiʻo kekahi mau hōʻike he wehewehe pono'ī no ia,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻaʻana o kāu kākoʻo i ke kākoʻo i ka hōʻoiaʻana e hoʻopuka i nā hopena.
2. E ho'āʻo i ka "Ten Ten" Technique
ʻO ka mea mua, e koho i kahi mea e makemakeʻoe e hoʻomaikaʻi aʻe-e'ōlelo i ka alakaʻiʻana i kahi hālāwai, hāʻawiʻana, hoʻolohe, a alakaʻi paha i kahi mea hoʻokahi.
A laila, ma hope o ka pilina me kekahi, (ʻo ia wale nō e lawe i kekahi mau minuke), e nīnau i ka nīnau: "Ma kahi pākahi o hoʻokahi a heʻumi, pehea lāʻoe e koho ai i kaʻu mau pepeiao e hoʻolohe ai?" Inā he meaʻuʻuku aʻe i kaʻumi, e nīnau. i ka nīnau e nīnau nei, "He aha kaʻu e pono ai iāʻoe e helu mai iaʻu heʻumi?"
He maikaʻi ia no ka mea, hāʻawi iāʻoe i nā manaʻo kūikawā no ka hoʻonuiʻana, ma keʻano o ka mea nui i ka mea'ē aʻe.
Hoʻomakaʻo ia i ka kūkākūkāʻana ma kahi alaʻole e hoʻoweliweli, kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi, a me ka hana i ka pilina paʻa lanakila.
3. E noi i kahi mea noi
Hiki i nā poʻe loea maikaʻi ke hoʻolālā koke i nā moho ola . Hiki iā lākou ke nānā i kāu pūʻulu, a ma hope o ka nānāʻana i ka 15 mau minuke waea, e noʻonoʻo maikaʻi i kou mau ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali. Ponoʻoe e noi iā lākou no ka hōʻoia pololei, kūpono, a me ka hōʻino maoli. Eia hou, e hoʻolohe wale, e pani i kou waha a'ōlelo, "Mahalo."
4. E ho'āʻo i nā meaʻai
Heʻokoʻa'ē aʻe i nāʻano heʻumi aʻumi. Ma mua o ke noiʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā hana i hala, ua noiʻoe no ka'ōlelo aʻo e pili ana i keʻano eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Eʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu o nā kānaka me kēia, akā, loaʻa iāʻoe kaʻike kūpono.
5. E nānā iāʻoe iho ma Video
ʻO kahi ala maikaʻi e loaʻa ai nā manaʻo e pili ana i kāu mauʻikeʻike hōʻike. He mea weliweli kēia e aʻo ai iāʻoe iho, akā i ka makahiki o YouTube, hiki paha iā mākou keʻike iā mākou iho ma ka kamepiula. Uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā loaʻaʻoe i kahi kaʻi a mea aʻo e nānā pū meʻoe e kuhikuhi i nā mea a hāʻawi i nā'ōlelo aʻo no ka holomua. Inā heʻiliʻeleʻeleʻoe, e kono i kahi pūloha o nā hoaaloha ma luna a uhaki i ka popcorn a me ka pia.
6. E lawe i kahi papa alakaʻi
He nui nā papa alakaʻi e komo i kekahiʻano o nā manaʻo loiloi.
He nui ka huiʻana o 360 mau hanana, ka pilina, a me nā manaʻo mai nā haumāna a me ke kumu aʻo.
7. E lawe i kahiʻike pilikino i hilinaʻiʻia
E ho'āʻo i ka Hogan, MBTI, DISC, aiʻole nā mea'ē aʻe, e kōkua kekahi iāʻoe e wehewehe i nā hualoaʻa.
8. Nā nīnauele Job
Eia hou, e like me ka loaʻaʻana o nā manaʻo mai ka loiloi, ponoʻoe e noi i kahi ala maikaʻi, aʻike iāʻoe: e hoʻolohe, e pani i kou waha a'ōlelo, "Mahalo . " Ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻimi ana i kahi hana, he mea maikaʻi e hele i ka ninaninau maʻamau i nā manawa a pau.
9. E nīnau i kāu haku i kēia nīnau
"ʻAʻole wau e hele nei i kahi'ē aʻe, akā ināʻoe e pani iaʻu, he aha kāu e nānā ai i ke kanaka kūpono maikaʻi?" He mea liʻiliʻi kēia, no ka meaʻaʻoleʻoe makemake e hāʻawi i kou haku i nā manaʻo, akā ināʻoe ua nui ka wiwoʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke huki.
10. E noi i kāu mau keiki'ōpio
Ua hoʻopakele mākou i kēia no ka hope loa, no ka mea,ʻo ia ka hōʻino loa o nā manaʻo a pau! ʻAʻole wale no ka naʻau koa a me ka lahilahi.