Loaʻa ka maikaʻiʻole o ka hanaʻana me ka hoa hana hewa
ʻO kāu hana he mea āu i hānau ai a pono e hānai iāʻoe e kōkua i ka uluʻana. Makemakeʻoe i kekahi hoa e hele aku i kāuʻoihana me ka like o ke kūʻokoʻa a me ke kūpaʻa i loaʻa iāʻoe, akāʻo ka mea like hoʻi e pili ana i nāʻoihana like "parenting".
He mea naʻauao ke piliʻana i kaʻikeʻana i kekahi hoa kālepaʻoihana e like me kāu i hana ai i ka mea mālama hānai. ʻO ka huiʻana he berita lōʻihi loa, ma waena oʻelua (aʻoi aʻe) lāhui. E hoʻolimalima nuiʻoe i ka hoʻolālāʻana i nā hanaʻoihana nui me kāu hoa pilikino a pono e hiki iāʻoe ke pili me ia.
01 Huli i kahi hoa hana hiki ke hōʻoia i nāʻike a me kaʻike i kaʻoihana
Pono kekahi hoa hana maikaʻi e loaʻa nā pūkole e kākoʻo a mahalo aku iāʻoe iho. ʻAʻohe mea hoʻokahi iʻoihanaʻoihana o nā mea a pau. Inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā pūkiki ma waena o ka poʻe no kaʻikeʻana i kaʻoihanaʻoihanaʻoihana, e noʻonoʻo i kahi hoaʻike i kaʻike pilikino. ʻO nāʻoihana'ē aʻe aʻoe a me kāu hoa lawe mai i kaʻoihanaʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻomaka, ka hoʻolālā, e ulu, a holo i kāuʻoihana.
02 Eʻike i kahi hoʻoili i kāu mau kuleana, kaʻuhane hoʻohui waiwai, a me kaʻike
03 E nānā i kahi hoa hele me ka papaʻole o nā ukana pilikino
Inā he mau koʻikoʻi nui kou hoa i loko o kona ola pono'ī, hiki iā ia ke hana i kaʻoihana. He maikaʻi i ka makemake e hāʻawi i kahi mea i kekahi, akā e holo ana i kahiʻoihana liʻiliʻi e nānā i ka manawa, ka manawa, a me ka ikaika nui. Inā pili kāu hoa hana me kahi pilikia pilikino hoʻokahi ma hope o kekahi eʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho e halihali ana i ke kaumaha o kaʻoihana.
04 Loaʻa i kahi hoawai hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i nā kumu waiwai a me ka hōʻoia i kāuʻoihana
He mea nui ka loaʻaʻana o ke hoa pili kālā i loaʻa nā waiwai waiwai, akā aia kekahi mau haʻawina'ē aʻe i hiki i kekahi hoa ke lawe mai i kaʻoihana e hiki ai ke lilo i mea waiwai. Hiki i kekahi hoa hana me ka'enekeʻoihanaʻoihana, nā pilinaʻoihana, ka papa inoa o nā mea lawelawe, aiʻole kekahi mauʻike a me kaʻikeʻana paha ke hoʻonui i ka waiwai o kāuʻoihana a hoʻonui i kou kūlana no ka holomua i ka lōʻihi.
05 E koho i kahi hoaheleʻO ia kaʻoihana kālā
Loaʻaʻole ka waiwai o kou hoa pilikino i kaʻoihanaʻoi aku ma mua o ka hikiʻole i kāu hoa kūikawā ke pilikia i ke kālā. ʻO kekahi ma waena o ka pilikia kālāʻaʻole pahaʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi loa e komo i kaʻoihana me nā kumu likeʻole. ʻO nā kālā, waiwai, a me nā noʻonoʻo mālama manawa no kaʻoihana kūʻai kālepa liʻiliʻi aʻo kekahi mea nāna i hoʻomāinoino i kā lākouʻoihana pono'ī aʻoiʻoihana kālepa paha,ʻaʻole paha ia i nā akamai a iʻole ka aʻoʻana e hana i kaʻoihana pāʻoihana. ʻO kaʻoihana kūpono loa, hiki iā lākou ke imi i nā wahi eʻaihue ai i kāʻoukouʻoihana e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia pili kālā pilikino.
06 E koho i ka hoa hui e hana i ka pono pilikino a pilikino
E komo wale i ka pilina me kekahi mea āu e hilinaʻi ai. E nānā i kahi mea e mahalo ana i kaʻoiaʻiʻo a hana i nā pono maikaʻi a me nāʻoihanaʻoihana. Hiki i kekahi hoa hana lawaiʻa ke koho i kaʻaihueʻana mai ka hui, lawe i kāu mau manaʻo a iʻole nā mea kūʻai e hoʻomaka i kā lākou hana iho, aiʻole e uhaki i nā kānāwai e hiki ke loaʻa kāuʻoihana i ka pilikia pili kānāwai.
07 Hoʻohanohano: he mea e pono ai e hoʻokumu i kahi pilina lanakila
ʻAʻoleʻoe e launa pū me kekahi mea āu e mahaloʻole nei. ʻO ka kumu nui o ka hoʻokumuʻana i ka pilinaʻana,ʻo ia ke holomua i ka hui. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohālike i ka manaʻo a me nā hana a kekahi mea āu e mahaloʻole ai ma ka palenaʻoihana. Makemakeʻoe e pilina me kekahi mea e hōʻike iāʻoe i ke kūlana he hoa kōkua,ʻoihanaʻoihanaʻoihana, a ma keʻano he mea hoʻokumu i kāuʻoihana.