Heluhelu # 1: Nīnau nīnau
ʻO kēia kahi kahi i kūpono ai ka'ōlelo aʻo a Barney Stinson - ponoʻoe e "kūpono" i kahi hālāwai ninaninau nīnau . Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻoʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike i kāuʻanoʻuʻuku. Ma mua o kāu ninaninau, e hana i kahi noiʻi hou i ka papahana kamaliʻi a laila e hoʻoponopono i kāu kapa. No ka laʻana, inā'ōmaʻomaʻo kou'ōmaʻomaʻo e leʻaleʻa ana, a no kaʻaʻahuʻana i kekahi'ōmaʻomaʻo eʻike aiʻoe i keʻano o ka hilinaʻi nui, e kāhea ka hoʻopaʻi e pili ana i ka ikaika o kou hiki. Hiki iā ia ke lawe i keʻano o ka lei palaoa, ka'ahuʻula i hoʻohanaʻia ma lalo o kouʻaʻahu kahei, aiʻole kou laikini -ʻo ka mea āu e manaʻo ai ua kūpono. Makemakeʻoe e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa iāʻoe ma kahi hālāwai ninaninauʻana, a inā he leʻaleʻa hula leʻaleʻa ia noʻoe, ponoʻoe eʻimi i kahi ala e kūpono ai i. He kī'ē aʻe no ka nānāʻana i ka poli a me kaʻoihana i kāu nīnau ninaninau? E hōʻoia i kouʻano hoʻopono maikaʻi. ʻO ke kumu o ke kāpiliʻana i kēlā nānā,ʻo ia keʻano o kāu makemake e hana ai.
Nā Leka # 2: Halawai Pūnaewele
Hiki i kahi hui pūnaewele ke kāhea aku i kahi meaʻoluʻolu iki aʻe no ka mea he meaʻai pinepine a mea inu paha i loko o kēia mau hanana. Eia naʻe, ke makemake neiʻoe e hōʻoiaʻoe e hōʻike ana iāʻoe iho i ka mālamalama maikaʻi. E nā kāne, eia kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke komo i nā kapa lōʻihi a me nā launa me kou kapa komo komoʻole -ʻaʻole e hele a hiki i ka manaʻo e hele kekahi mea, akā e pono paha ke hele i waho o ka poʻe.
Nā wāhine, eia kahi e hele ai e hōʻike i kouʻano pilikino. Ināʻoluʻoluʻoe i ka lole penikala, eʻaʻahu i kahi. Inā makemakeʻoe i nā kuʻekuʻe kiʻekiʻe, e koho i nā mea punahele (inā hiki iāʻoe ke hele a kū mālie i loko o lākou). Loaʻa iāʻoe kahi lei leʻaleʻa leʻaleʻa e hoʻopili i kekahi pop i kahi hui lōʻihi? E lawe i kēlā. ʻIkeʻoe i kahi e hele nei kēia. E like me ka ninaninau nīnau, e makemakeʻoe e hōʻike i kahi maikaʻi loa o kāu iho, a ma kahi hanana e like me nā hanena pūnaewele kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke wehe i kekahi o kouʻano ma.
Kahi # 3: Ka Lā Mua o kahi Hana Hou
Ma mua o kāu hoʻomakaʻana i kāu hana hou, e noʻonoʻoʻoe e nīnau i kekahi i ka inoa o ka lole komo. Inā ua laka iāʻoe, hāʻawi lākou i kahi kope o ka lole lole i kākauʻia aiʻole e kuhikuhi iāʻoe i kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke loaʻa. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e hana ai, e hoʻomanaʻo ponoʻoe e hahai i ka lole lole ma kāu lā hana mua. Ma loko o ke kaʻina o ka lole lole, e komo i kahi mea e hoʻopuka mai i kahiʻano leʻaleʻa ma waena o nā meaʻelua a C i pili i ka hoʻolālā kumuhana a me ka hilinaʻi. Hiki iāʻoe keʻaʻahu i kaʻaʻahu e like me keʻano o kouʻaʻahu i kāu nīnau. ʻOiaiʻo ia kou lā mua, hiki paha iāʻoe ke hui aku i nā kānaka he nui, aʻo ka hele wāwae eʻoi aʻe ma mua o ka mea maʻamau i ka papahana. E noʻonoʻo i ka wā e kiʻi anaʻoe i kou mau kāmaʻa.
Hikiʻole iāʻoe keʻike i keʻano o ka mahana o ke keʻena -ʻo kekahi o nā keʻena i mālamaʻia ma kahi mahana a me nā mahana mahanaʻole ma mua o nā mea'ē aʻe. No kou lā mua, he mea pono eʻaʻahu i nā papa moe-paha i ka pāluleʻaʻahu a i ke kāhili paha ma lalo o ka pahi a me kaʻaʻahu. ʻO kēiaʻano, inā he leʻaleʻa, loaʻa iāʻoe kahi mea e hoʻomaha ai iāʻoe e noho ana i kāu papa hou, a inā he mahana, hiki iāʻoe ke lawe aku a kau i ke kua o kou noho (no kou lā mua e hōʻoia i nā lima lima o kouʻaʻahu).
ʻO nā mea a pau āu e laʻahu ai, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia i loko o ka manaʻo - ua'āpono loa ka hoʻokomoʻana i kekahi o kouʻano i kāu koho kohoʻana. I kou wā e mālama ai i nā pāpale kāhiko a pau a mālama i ka hopena o ke kūlana i loko o ka naʻau, ua kūʻokoʻaʻoe i ka lilo iāʻoe iho. ʻO kāuʻoihanaʻoihana,ʻo ia hoʻi.
Aloha maikaʻi!