Nui nā manaʻo kuhihewa e pili ana i nā wāhine i kaʻawaʻawa e lele ana i waho. A i ka wā e ulu ai ke kumu moe kolohe no kekahi oʻoukou, pono ke kamaʻilioʻana me ka pono e pono ai. No ka mea, e like me ko mākou makemake e keʻakeʻa nei mākou i kahi lio make a me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa wahine e pili ana i nā wāhine ma kahi pāleʻaleʻa, manaʻo kekahi o mākou he mea pono ia e nānā. Aʻo kaʻu heluhelu e hoʻomaopopo ana iaʻu ua lōʻihi loa mākou mai kahi kūkākūkā a me kona ola.
He naʻau maikaʻi wau. Makemake wau eʻae i ka'ōlelo nui loa i manaʻoʻia e like me ka malekani male e ka nuiʻole,ʻaʻole i manaʻo maoliʻia e pili pono i ka sexist, aiʻole ka hanaʻole, a e hāʻawi aku wau i nā poʻe i ka pono o ka kānalua. A ke makemake nei wau e manaʻo wau aia wau i loko o ka honua lele e like me ke kanaka a me ka wahine'ē aʻe. No ka hapanui, ke manaʻo nei au ua maopopo i nā wāhine'ōpio i kēia mau lā ke hana i kekahi mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana. ʻO wau ka mea mua e'ōlelo akuʻaʻole nā wāhine i hoʻololiʻia mai ka hoʻokomoʻana i nā ao holoʻokoʻa i nāʻano a pau. ʻO wau, no ka mea hoʻokahi,ʻaʻole i haʻiʻia iaʻuʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke lele i nā mokulele. Akā, aia nō ke kolohe, a he nui nā manaʻo kuʻuna e pili ana iā ia.
ʻOiai he mea maʻalahi ia, hiki i ka'enekeneke ma ka'awaʻawe lele he mea maʻalahi, e like me kaʻu iʻike ai i ka wā eʻike ana i nā kūkākūkā pūnaewele, nā palapala pāpili pāʻoihana a me nā'ōlelo'ōlelo. ʻO kahi noiʻi pūnaewele no ka'ikepilihelu a me nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā wāhine ma kaʻawaʻawa a me nā pilikia i pili pū me aʻu, ua lilo wau i mea hoʻokiʻekiʻe.
Ma kaʻikeʻana i ka manaʻo o nā poʻe no nā wāhine ma kaʻaʻaʻana, uaʻike koke wau i ka nui o nā manaʻo hoʻopunipuni e pili ana i nā pilikia - a me ka neleʻole paha - ke kū'ē nei i nā wāhine e hana nei i kahi noho aliʻi male.
Ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau manaʻo kuhihewa aʻu iʻike ai.
ʻO ka hapanui o nā manaʻo ma lalo nei he mau'ōlelo kūikawā mai nā kāne a me nā wāhine i loaʻa iaʻu ma ka pūnaewele. He mea hōʻoha paha paha i kekahi o mākou, akā a laila,ʻaʻole paha. ʻAʻole wau iʻike nui i ka loaʻaʻana iā lākou.
1. "ʻAʻole pono nā wahine i nā mokulele e like me nā kāne."
Ua maopopo ka hui likeʻole o nā kāne me nā wāhine. Uaʻike mākou mai ka noiʻiʻana e makemake nā keikikāne i nā kaʻa a me nā kaikamāhine e makemake i nā pulu. ʻO ka mea a mākou iʻikeʻole ai,ʻo ka nui o nā hiʻohiʻona o ke kāne e hanaʻia ma mua o ka nohoʻana, he hopena ia o ko mākou kaiaulu me keʻano biology a me nā genetics. Akā, i ka wā e pili ai i kaʻaeʻana,ʻaʻole pono ka manaʻo e likeʻole nā wāhine i nā mokulele a iʻole i kūponoʻole i ka holoʻana. He aha ka nui o ke kaikamahine i like aiʻole makemakeʻole paha i kaʻaeʻana i ka palekana ma muli o ka hōʻailona a meʻole iʻikeʻoleʻia? ʻO wai ka mea e'ōleloʻaʻole nui aku nā kaikamāhine a me nā wahine ma waho eʻikeʻole nei i kaʻawaʻawa?
2. "Ua weheʻia nā mokulele i nā wāhine. ʻAʻole pilikia. "
ʻAe, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa e "wehe" i nā wāhine. Akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo anei? He aha kēlā manaʻo? ʻOiai, hiki i ka wahine ke aʻo i ka lele inā makemakeʻo ia. Akā, e noʻonoʻo me aʻu i kahi manawa, he 16 makahikiʻoe i wahine e makemake e aʻo i ka lele. Loaʻa iāʻoe ka ikaika e iho i kahi kula holo kula a me ka FBO , kahi āu e hele ai aʻaʻohe kanaka i kahi papa mua.
Ke kali neiʻoe, a ke hele nei kekahi malekino kāne ma hope a hele pololeiʻoe me ka'ōleloʻole aku iāʻoe. A laila, i ka manawa e hoʻomaopopo ai kekahi limahana iāʻoe, e manaʻo pahaʻo iaʻoʻoe ka wahine a kahi pilote, aiʻoleʻoe i laila e hōʻiliʻili i ka hānai, aiʻole e hoʻonohonoho i kahi kaʻa e mahalo ai i kāu mea kūʻai, aiʻole nāʻano'ē aʻe Hana i nā hana. No kou kū ponoʻole i kaʻike, ua manaʻoʻiaʻaʻoleʻoe he pilote aʻaʻole pahaʻoe i makemake e lilo i hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole ka wahi hoʻokipa maikaʻi loa no ka wahine. Hiki ke loaʻa i ka wahine nā mokulele, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ka launa wahine.
3. "ʻAʻole e pono i nā wāhine ke hoʻopiʻi. Ua loaʻa iā lākou kahi hana kūikawā likeʻole i nā haʻawina a me nā makana. Inā like ka pahuhopu, no ke aha e loaʻa ai kēia mau pono no nā wāhine? "
Ma keʻano laulā,ʻaʻole makemake ka wahine ma ka'awaʻawe e mālamaʻia i kahi'ē aʻe ma mua o nā kāne.
ʻAʻole lākou eʻimi ana i nā pepa kiko'ī a iʻole kālā kālā . Akā, aia kekahi kumu no kēiaʻano "hoʻoponopono kūikawā" a pili i kahi lōʻihi o nā pono kīwila, e pili ana i ka Civil Rights Act o 1964, ka mea e pale ai i nā kānaka mai ka hōʻoleʻana i ka hoʻolimalima e pili ana i ka makahiki, ke kāne, ka hoʻomana a iʻole ke kala . Loaʻa nā wāhine i nā koho ma kaʻoihana airline ma kekahi mau mea no ka mea o ka ho'āʻoʻana o ke kaiaulu no ka paleʻana i ka hoʻokaeʻana i ka manawa i hala, a pēlā nō. ʻO ia ka mea maikaʻi loa e hiki iā mākou ke hana. Akāʻaʻole kēia ka hopena o ka moʻolelo. Mai hoʻopoina iā mākou no ka pono o ka pilote wahine no kaʻoihana, e like me kekahi pailota'ē aʻe, a ma hope o ia mea, pono lākou e hōʻoia i waena o kahi poʻe kālepa male, nā mana, a me nā mea kaʻa'ē aʻe. Heʻike paha kēia no ka wahine, akā, i ka hapanui o nā hihia,ʻaʻole i pohō ka palekana no nā wāhine i loko o ka honua āpau i nā mea e palekanaʻole aiʻole ka puhiʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona iʻikeʻia e nā wāhineʻaʻole i like me nā kāne. No laila, i ka wā e loaʻa ai i nā wāhine nā hana kūikawā i kekahi mau mea, manaʻo pinepine lākou i ka hana e like me ka paʻakikī, ināʻaʻoleʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ma mua o ka mea e noho kokoke ana iā lākou, i mea e mahalo ai i nā hoa ka hopena o kahi manawa palupalu.
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4. "ʻO nā wāhine,ʻaʻole lākou iʻae i ka naʻau a me ka pilikia e aʻo i ka leleʻana."
Loaʻa i ka noiʻi kū'ē i ke kumuhana o nā mea hiki i nā kāne'ōpio a me nāʻano pilikino e pili ana i nā mana o ka pilot a me nāʻano pilikino. Ke hōʻike nei kekahi mau noiʻi i ka emiʻole o nā wāhine ma mua o nā kāne, akā inā paha he hopena kēia o keʻano a iʻole mālamaʻana - aia nā hōʻike o nā meaʻelua - he nīnau ia e hikiʻole i kekahi ke pane pane pololei.
A i ka manawa i'ōleloʻia nā kānaka iʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o ka maikaʻi ma ka pākīkī a me keʻano āpau, uaʻikeʻia nā wāhine iʻike i ka pilikia math a me nā pilikia spatia e hakakā ma keʻano like me ko lākou mau hoa kāne. ʻO kekahi mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai,ʻo nā kumuhana i manaʻoʻia e nā kānaka eʻoi aku -ʻoi aku ka nui, nā'ōnaehana, a me ka manaʻuʻuku -ʻo ia wale nō kahi hapa liʻiliʻi e pono ai no ka leleʻana i kahi mokulele; aia kekahi'ōlelo hoʻoholo, hoʻokolokolo, hana pūkahi, hoʻokele, hoʻoholo pilikia a me ka launa pūʻana. A inā heʻoiaʻiʻo ka maikaʻi o nā wāhine i ka hoʻoloheʻana, hikiʻole ke hana me ka manaʻoʻole, aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ka hana pinepineʻana, a laila, uaʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā wāhine i kahi mea kūponoʻole.
5. "ʻAʻole e noho ka pilikino ma ka mokulele ināʻaʻole mākou i hoʻomau i ka laweʻana i ke kumuhana no ka kūkāʻana."
ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo ka moe kolohe, like me ka hewa, ka nele, kaʻikeʻole, a me ka hōʻehaʻole o kēlā me kēia'ōpala,ʻaʻole loa e nalowale no ka mea wale nō mākou e hoʻoholo e haʻalele.
ʻO ka naʻaupō wale nō kaʻoluʻolu no ka pono, i kēia hihia.
6. "ʻAʻoheʻike o ka moekolohe. Inā hōʻoleʻole nā wāhine i ka palekana,ʻo ia ka pilikia. "
I loko o ke kaumaha, he nui nā hiʻohiʻona o sexism i loko o ka honua ākea o kēia lā - kekahi mau loa - like me ka pilikia o Air Canada me nā kiʻi nui o nā wāhine i waihoʻia i loko o ka papa lele.
A i kēia lā, aia kekahi mau lālā o ka lehulehu e hōʻoluʻoluʻole ana i ka hana a kahi pilote wahine ma ka papa lele. Loaʻa ka moekolohe. He pilikia. Aia kekahi kumu e hoʻomau ai ke kamaʻilioʻana.
7. "Inā huhū kekahi wahine i kekahi kiʻiʻokoʻa o kekahi wahine'ē aʻe a iʻole ka'emeʻa leʻaleʻa, a laila ua huhūʻo ia i ka naʻau aʻaʻole ponoʻo ia he pilolota."
Ua'ōlelo pinepineʻia e hikiʻole i kekahi mau kaikamāhine ke lawe i ka hoʻohenehene. ʻO ka paneʻana o kahi wahine i kekahi manaʻo a mea hoʻohenehene paha a ka hoa e hiki ai ke pale a pale paha i kekahi mau mea, akā eia ka mea: E hihia mākou a pau i ka hana kolohe, ka hoʻokaumaha, ka weliweli, a me kaʻawaʻole.
ʻAʻohe kahi kūpono no ka hana kolohe a iʻole ke kolohe i kahiʻoihanaʻoihana (a iʻole keʻano'ē aʻe,ʻoiaʻiʻo) aʻo ka paneʻana i kēia hanaʻaʻole ka pilikia; ʻo ka pilikia ka hana pono'ī. ʻO ka lua o kēia, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia ke hōʻehaʻia e ka hanaʻinoʻole i keʻokiʻana i ka noʻeau o ke kanaka ma ke ano he pilolota. ʻO ka hōʻehaʻana,ʻaʻole ia he kūponoʻole a he kūpono paha. Ma kahiʻoihana hoʻolālā e like me kahi lele, pono ka mea kūpono e manaʻoʻia,ʻaʻole i nānāʻia ma ka'īpuka.
A ma hope o ka mea a pau,ʻaʻole anei keʻano o ke kanaka e kū nei i ka kolohe a me ke koloheʻole i keʻano o ka pilote e makemake ana mākou e lele i kahi moku?
8. "Pono mākou i nā wāhine hou i kahiʻaʻa."
Aia kahi'ōlaʻi nui no ka hoʻouluʻana i nā wāhine i loko o nā mokulele, me nā papahana STEM ma keʻano holoʻokoʻa. Nui nā kānaka i manaʻoʻiʻo he nui nā wāhine i kaʻoihana. Akā, no ke aha? He aha ka waiwai a nā wāhine e lawe mai ai i ka noho kaiākea a nā kānaka e hikiʻole ai ke lawe mai? Inā hele nā wāhine a me nā kāne ma kahi pāʻani pāʻani, he aha ka mea e pono ai ke mālama i nā wāhine?
He mea kūpono paha ke'ōleloʻana eʻoi aku ka nui o nā kānaka i kaʻae. Me kahi pōkole pilo pilo a me kahiʻoihana palekana no nāʻoihana palekana, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohana hou i nā piloteʻoihanaʻoi aʻe. Inā loaʻa kahi makamaeʻole o nā wāhine i waho - hiki iā - a makemake e - hoʻomaikaʻi i kēlā loiloi pilo a me ke kahua pāʻani i ka manawa like, no ke ahaʻaʻole? Akā,ʻaʻole paha mākou e makemake i nā wāhine hou aku ma kahi pāʻani wale no ka pono o ka makemakeʻana i nā wāhine.
ʻAʻole paha pono mākou e kūʻai kūʻokoʻa i nā wāhine aiʻole e hoʻowalewale i nā wāhine i kaʻawaʻawa - aiʻole i kekahiʻoihanaʻoihana'ē aʻe i kū i lalo - no ka mea ua paʻakikī ka pālākiō. Pono mākou e hoʻolako i nā kaikamāhine i nā manawa a me ka hoʻopauʻana i nā mea e pale ai. Ināʻaʻole mākou e hana i kēlā mea, e koho nā wāhine e komo i ke kahua i ko lākou kūlana hoihoi aʻoi aku ma kēlā āpau a hiki i ka nui o ko lākou hiki. ʻO ka manawa e hōʻike aku ai mākou i nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine i kaʻawaʻawa ma keʻano e like me kaʻike a nā keikikāne a me nā kāne'ōpio e loaʻa ai, pono i nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine e piʻi i luna o ka pāʻani - inā makemake lākou.
ʻAʻole makemake nui nā wāhine e hoʻomau i kēia manaʻopaʻa,ʻo ia ke kumu eʻike aiʻoe i ka hapanui o mākou eʻauʻa nei i nā kūkākūkā e pili ana i ka pili wahine. Eia kekahi,ʻo nā wāhine i komo i loko o ka pāʻaweʻaleʻa, heʻano ikaika lākou, he poʻe akamai i ka manawa a iʻole ka manaʻo e kūkākūkā i ka wahine, no ka mea ua piʻi aʻe lākou ma luna o lākou, a no ka meaʻaʻole iʻikeʻia no lākou iho, aiʻole paha no ka meaʻaʻole lākou makemake e kāhea aku i ka nānā aku i nā hihia kāne kāne. Akā, e like me kaʻu iʻike ai, aia nō kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona hewaʻole ma waho o laila, aʻo nā manaʻo'ē aʻe a me ka maʻalahi paha, e hāpai i ka nele i nā wāhine i komo i loko o ka pākele.
Heʻoiaʻiʻo, i kēia lā,ʻoi aku ma mua o ka wā i loaʻa i kahi kaikamahine i nā manawa a nā kaikamāhine i loaʻaʻole i mua. A heʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ka wahine e makemake ana e komo i loko o ka honua o ka'awaʻaweʻole e pili ana i ka nui, inā heʻano. Akā, ua nui loa nāʻano moekolohe a me nā manaʻo kuhihewa'ē aʻe e pili ana i nā wāhine ma ka holoʻokoʻa e mau ana, a he mau manaʻo kuhihewaʻole ia e ponoʻole e mālamaʻia.